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Original: 1/6/2013 10:02 PM
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Sunday, January 06, 2013

Is long hair unprofessional?

 

Specifically, does it look unprofessional when a woman has hair that goes down to her waist (or beyond)?

My hair currently goes down to my waist, though it has been longer in the past, and I don't intend to cut it any time soon. The problem is, I have an interview at a medical school coming up on Tuesday,* and I'm concerned that my long hair might not look professional.

While I'm sure that the standards for what is or isn't professional vary among fields, with the creative ones being more lenient, it seems as though hair that approaches the back bra strap is considered too long to be professional. (I am surprised that people even consider shoulder-length hair to be long.) This is so annoying to me, because I believe that hair is a form of self expression. I'm already not allowed to put pink highlights in my hair, so the least I can do to have it naturally look striking is to grow it out longer than most people's.

I have only recalled seeing one female physician with long hair, that was let down, being interviewed on TV. One question that comes to mind is whether the people who enter the profession already chose to have shorter hairstyles prior to entering or if they felt the need to keep their hair under a certain length because of the requirement to look professional. Perhaps it isn't an issue for most of them because nearly all the people I know have shorter hair.

My opinion is that judging someone by their hair is superficial. It is my answers to the questions that should matter more. However, since it still happens, I will need to figure out how to get around this problem without cutting my hair. I don't play with my hair while I talk, but I think I will still tie it in a low ponytail. I would prefer to put it up in a bun because that way the actual length is not obvious, but I'm not sure how to make a neat looking bun and have it stay securely for up to six hours. (My hair is too long to put up in a French twist.) I've also read that a woman's hairstyle shouldn't be too elaborate, because it will give the impression that she spends more time on her hair than her work, which I think is an unfortunate judgment. Any other suggestions for professional hairstyles for long hair?

*Some of you may not know that I don't actually want to enter the medical profession but my family is pressuring me into it. Anyway, I won't write about that here.

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No, it's not unprofessional. Also, it sounds cute.
Posted 1/6/2013 10:32 PM by phantomFive - recommend - reply

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Just make sure it is clean and neat looking and that you r clothes look the same. But I am sure your grooming standards are fine. The problem with grooming will come while you are in med school as I amsure they will have some sort of sstandards since you would have patient contact. The only other time will be whomever your employer is as hospitals do have grooming standards that all have to ad hear to. My guess is to learn how to put your hair up nicely and quickly.
Posted 1/6/2013 10:34 PM by buddy71 Xanga True Member Xanga Lifetime Member - recommend - reply

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Oh and no it does not look unprofessional.
Posted 1/6/2013 10:35 PM by buddy71 Xanga True Member Xanga Lifetime Member - recommend - reply

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I don't think it's unprofessional as long as it's not all messy and what not. But you could always do a cute casual but professional updo if you're worried .
Posted 1/6/2013 10:45 PM by pain2beauty - recommend - reply

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It's just my opinion, but I would think wearing your hair long and down in the medical field would not be a good idea. Long hair tends to break off and you wouldn't want to contaminate a wound, right? I think it would be nice to wear it up in a nice updo of some sort, just to look put together. Do you tend to play with your hair or flip it around at all? That is a no-no in an interview, so the more "controlled" your hairstyle is, the less chance you'll unconsciously twirl it or shake it out. Just some thoughts as I've had hair that long myself, and it's a little longer than shoulder length now and I feel like I need a cut that's more age appropriate. That's another consideration, if it's age appropriate.
Posted 1/7/2013 8:46 PM by theKisSilent - recommend - reply

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How about a single braid?
Posted 1/8/2013 4:03 PM by janusfiles Xanga True Member - recommend - reply

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So did you cut your hair?
Posted 1/9/2013 1:24 PM by phantomFive - recommend - reply

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@phantomFive - Thank you

@buddy71 - Thanks for the info. This is another reason why a job in the medical field does not sound appealing to me.

@pain2beauty -  Thank you for your opinion. I want to learn how to do an updo, but it'll probably be hard with hair my length.

@theKisSilent - That is important to consider, but it really depends on the area within medicine. Since I am interested in psychiatry or neurology, there won't be any open wounds to possibly contaminate. Of course in lab situations I'll always have my hair tied back or I secure it in a bun with a large jaw clip. As I mentioned in the post, I don't play with my hair while talking, so that isn't an issue. Thank you for your thorough comment.

@janusfiles - I've thought about that, but was concerned that it would look like I spend too much time doing my hair. Also, I only do a four-stranded braid now (instead of the usual three-strands) but hairs seem to come loose from it sooner, so I could just be less stubborn and concerned about being original, and do a three-stranded braid.
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Personally I think that long hair is usually very beautiful, and would definitely think that a braid would be inobtrusive enough not to cause you trouble at a job interview, but I also know that many people consider any hint of individualism or femininity to be "unprofessional!" I would guess that if the interviewer likes you it won't put him/her off, but if he/she doesn't it might be used as an excuse not to take you. I generally take the view that if a given employer is that hung up about something so superficial then I don't really want to work for them. On the other hand, I don't have a "high-powered" career-type job, so my advice may be questionably useful to you.
I wish you the best of luck, although I'm not sure (all things considered) which outcome would be best for you!)
Posted 4/1/2013 4:25 AM by Zakuru - recommend - reply


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